you have ask very good questions ...they make me think. three years ago I was on the web looking for eastern european women on dating sites. nothing serious because I am ten thousand miles away. Just looking. I found a site with many girls. Thousands! For three nights I went through hundreds of girls profiles. And, then I saw this one girl named Lusine from Uzbekistan. I didn't have the money to email her through the site so I googled her name and everything I saw told me about her. I just wanted to speak to her about her life and find out what her life was like. She was a member of a site called VIPARMENIA and I private messaged her and she was shocked that I found her. That is how I found the forum. That was december of 07'. I've been here ever since and then I met MUKIK who is a very special woman. She has two beautiful girls and I pray for her every day. I have no girl friend in many years because I am waiting for God to give me His choice for me....